Even subtle changes in position can make an enormous difference to the angle of penetration. A variation of ‘Legging It’, the man kneels instead of sits, pulling her high and aiming for front-wall stimulation. G-spot fans will love it, but it’s also ideal if he wants to work on her clitoris. Male Tantra devotees would draw her feet up to touch his mouth and forehead to convey ‘tenderness, humility, and devotion.’ Non-Tantrics will enjoy the prime view of both her genitals and her facial expressions.
Don’t start until they’re aroused. The more aroused the are, the more
likely they are to be receptive to erotic pain.
Run your fingers lightly over their buttocks.
Then place one hand on a buttock cheek, the other on the genitals.
Cup your hand slightly, keeping your fingers together and spank in a slightly upward motion.
This feels better than a downward stroke. Keep your wrist flexible.
Your first spank should be more like a caress than a slap, then massage
the area for a few seconds and fondle the genitals.
Time spanks to arrive no more than 3-5 seconds apart. Cover both cheeks, aiming for the lower
(fleshier) part, and start to increase the force. Vary the weight, frequency, and placement of the slaps.
A sensual weekend at a hotel, away from routine and normality, can do great things for your life! Aim for one weekend away every two to three months.
Things To Take Advantage Of:
Most hotels discreetly position full-length mirrors so you can watch yourselves in bed. Position yourselves so the person receiving pleasure can see exactly what’s going on.
If your room has large bathtub, it’s rue not to have sex in there! Go easy on the bubbles so you have a good view of gloriously naked flesh. Pick favorite parts of your partner’s body - look but don’t touch as you wax lyrical.
Few women orgasm during penetration alone. But hold a small cylindrical vibrator against the clitoral area during intercourse and voila! , an orgasm during penetration.
And vibrators aren’t just for women. Get her to hold it against her mouth during oral sex and hold it against your hand while you’re masturbating.
We’ve highlighted a few starter vibes and couples vibes below to enhance your love making. Enjoy!
It was the mission of We Vibe designer Bruce Murison to find a sex toy that could not only enhance love-making for couples but could be worn during love-making. When he couldn’t find one, he set out to design his own. Thank goodness for ingenuity!
The We Vibe collection has since grown to include both internal and external stimulators. Each We Vibe is rechargeable and comes with its own charger and cord. The great thing about these vibrators is that the chargers are universal so you can plug any of these We Vibe toys into the same charger!
We Vibe Touch
The We Vibe Touch is a clitoral stimulator made of phthalate-free silicone that is sculpted to fit a woman’s shape. The soft curves help spread the powerful vibrations throughout your body!
We Vibe Tango
It doesn’t always take two to Tango! This lipstick-shaped vibrator is made of body-safe ABS and has a contoured tip allowing you to gently spread the vibrations wherever you like. Use it alone or with a partner to maximize your orgasm potential.
We Vibe Salsa
The We Vibe Salsa is made for pinpoint precision! Made of body-safe ABS, the Salsa features a tapered tip which lets you direct all the vibration to one single area. Use it to write your name on your partner and find all the erogenous zones you didn’t know existed!
Now that you have been introduced, I highly suggest you get to know the extended We Vibe collection. Watch our video above for more information.
Men’s fantasies tend to resemble porn flicks—instant action, close-ups, graphic details, and a focus on the physical. Often they just need one simple image. Men also tend to fantasize about women they’ve got a chance with in real life. The higher the real-life probability, the more it arouses them.
Women’s fantasies are based more around a situation, probable or not: they set the scene (hunky repairman/ George Clooney come to door, etc.), then move on to specific sexual treats (oral sex featuring heavily). There’s typically more conversation in women’s fantasies as the narrative unfolds.