Bullets & Eggs
Many sex toys start with a Bullet and then are built up around it. It’s the most basic and most perfect toy for beginners; especially for women that have difficulty with orgasms. No matter how advanced you may be you can always find a way to work a bullet into your bedtime sessions. There are many ways to use a bullet; externally for masturbation and foreplay, or internally for vaginal, anal, and G-spot stimulation.
Egg vibrators are versatile sex toys that can please a woman or man in multiple ways. Much like a bullet, an egg is a great toy for either external or internal stimulation. The only difference with an egg is the shape which is shaped like; you guessed it, an egg.
Kegel Balls/Ben Wa Balls
Get those kegels in shape! Kegel balls or Ben-Wa balls are weighted devices that strengthen a woman’s vaginal and pelvic floor muscles (strong pelvic floor muscles help prevent urinary and fecal incontinence.) However, more than just for getting in shape, women enjoy using kegel or ben-wa balls for vaginal stimulation or to increase arousal.
Try this move! Rocking: With the balls inside the vagina, get into a sitting position. Rock back and forth with your legs pressed together to create a gentle stimulation. What’s the difference between Ben-wa balls and Kegel balls? The common misconception is that they are the same thing. Though they are closely related, kegel balls and ben-wa balls do have some differences. Unlike ben-wa balls which are solid, kegel balls are hollow so the weights inside move with you for a teasing stimulation. The other difference is that kegel balls are usually encased by silicone unlike ben-wa balls that are usually made of solid metal or glass.
Vibrators… where to begin? Vibrators come in multiple shapes and sizes, with dual action this or multiple functions that, it can be daunting to try to find the right one for you. So let’s break it down by different styles:
The Traditional Vibe - Your basic hard-shelled vibrator, bigger than a bullet, measuring anywhere from 4 to 8 inches. Traditional vibrators can be used for external or internal stimulation.
Realistic Vibes - A realistic vibrator has a phallic shape with all the details of a real penis. Realistic vibes are usually made of silicone, jelly, or rubber material for a softer, more life-like feel.
Rabbit Vibes - Rabbit vibrators stimulate your vaginal walls and your clitoris simultaneously. Rabbits usually have a rotating shaft with massaging beads and vibrating bunny ears that massage your clitoris.
Dual Action Vibes - A dual action vibrator is any vibrator that has a clitoral stimulator attached. A rabbit vibrator can also fall in this category.
G-Spot Vibes - A G-spot vibrator is usually a traditional vibrator but is curved towards the end to make reaching the female G-spot a simpler task.
Now, how can you use a vibrator for your pleasure? There’s so much more a vibrator can be used for than just masturbation, try incorporating one into your couple’s play. Stimulate him during foreplay by rubbing the vibe against his nipples or shaft or let him do the exploring on your body. During oral you can press it against your cheek while working on him or he can put it inside you when he’s using his tongue to pleasure you.
Hands-Free Stimulators - Any vibrating, sexual stimulator that can be worn on the body, such as a harness or vibrating panty. This style of vibrator attaches to the body with either a leg or waist strap. Since this vibrator only covers the clitoral area you can also enjoy vaginal penetration which makes it perfect to use along with a vibrator or during intercourse.
Finger Stimulators - A stimulator that can be worn on the finger tip. These are small and discreet making them easy to use during intercourse or masturbation.
Electro Stimulation - Control units or devices that send out electrical pulses that vary from small tingles to throbs. Used for external stimulation.
Dildos & Dongs
Sleeves & Extensions
Flavored – Get licked like a lollipop with flavored lube! Make oral sex more delicious and fun not only for him but for her too! Flavored lubes are a great item to spice up your pre-sex teasing. You can put flavored lubes on your genitalia, nipples, or wherever without having to worry about a sticky mess. So tonight, serve up some dessert… in bed.
Silicone-Based – Going back to the basics - silicone-based lubricants are usually formulated with fewer ingredients and do not contain any water. Silicone-based lubricants are not absorbed by skin or mucus membranes, and consequently last longer than water-based lubricants. Added feature: Got a bed that squeaks? Put some lube on it to stop the creaking.
Water-Based – Water-based lubricants are water-soluble and are the most widely-used personal lubricants. Water-based lubes have been recommended for use in safer sex practices because they do not weaken the effects of condoms like oil-based lubricants do. Most sex toys call for the use of a water-based lubricant as well because of its non-sticky, non-greasy feel and how gentle it is on the body.
Anal Lubricant – Going down under? Many lubricants are safe for anal sex, but there are lubes that are specifically designed to enhance the enjoyment of anal sex. Often, this is simply a thicker gel rather than a liquid. This thicker consistency is preferable because it helps the lubricant stay in place.