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9 Sex Toy Safety Tips Everyone Should Know

It goes pretty much without saying that there’s a lot to love about sex toys. They’re great ways to not only enhance your solo pleasure sessions, but to turn up the dial on partnered sex. They can teach you more about your body, as well as make you a better lover. They can introduce you to exciting new sensations you never even knew you were into before as well.

However, sex toys become a lot less awesome when you’re not well-versed in sex toy safety. Here we’ll go over some of the most important things to keep in mind when it comes to using and sharing sex toys safely. We’ll go over a few tips for washing and maintaining your toys as well.

  1. Make sure the toys you choose are non-toxic.

Society is getting better at opening and maintaining an informative dialogue when it comes to sex. However, sex toys still occupy a grey area. They’re definitely out there and people absolutely use them. However, public leaders and the education system still largely refuse to acknowledge them. Not only do very few sex education classes cover sex toy safety, but the general mindset out there also keeps the toy industry largely unregulated.

For that reason, it’s important to know how to avoid potentially toxic sex toys, especially if you have sensitive skin. Prioritize toys that are made from non-toxic, body-safe materials like medical grade silicone, glass, or stainless steel. You may also want to avoid toys that contain phthalates, chemicals sometimes used to soften rubber but that have also been linked to various health issues. Last but certainly not least, always buy your toys from brands and merchants you know you can trust to deliver a safe, high quality product.

  1. Be careful with toys that are porous.

Some sex toys have one very important thing in common with your skin – they’re porous in nature, meaning they contain tiny openings that can potentially hide bacteria or dirt. This makes them particularly challenging to clean and take care of. (In fact, you can never be 100% certain that they’re clean on a microscopic level at all.) While this may not be a huge deal if you’re only going to be using the toy in question on yourself, you’ll definitely want to think twice before sharing a porous sex toy with someone else.

You’ll also want to make sure that you not only wash your porous sex toys (i.e. toys made of rubber, vinyl, leather, wood, jelly, or thermoplastics) thoroughly, but that you let them dry thoroughly before putting them away. Otherwise, there’s a chance they could become sanctuaries for mold or mildew and nobody wants a moldy vibrator or dildo in their life, right?

  1. Understand that sharing isn’t necessarily caring.

As touched on above, it’s definitely possible for a sex toy to transmit bacteria and viruses, so it’s important to share responsibly. Porous sex toys pose a particular risk for obvious reasons, as they can harbor and transmit human papilloma virus (HPV) among other things. (This is the case even if they’ve just been cleaned.) For that reason, you’ll want to avoid sharing porous vibrators, dildos, or other toys with any sex partner you wouldn’t also feel comfortable having unprotected sex with (i.e. a spouse or a very long-term partner you trust).

Of course, this hardly means you can’t ever enjoy a toy with a one-night stand or a more casual partner. Just stick to non-porous materials like glass, stainless steel, or non-porous silicone for absolute safety. Also make sure you’re cleaning your toys thoroughly after each use.

  1. Use a condom when sharing insertable sex toys.

In case you don’t already know, condoms can just as easily be used on insertable toys like dildos and penetrative vibrators as they can flesh and blood penises. That said, they’re a great way to make communal sex toy use a lot more hygienic. Just make sure you’re using the right condoms on your toys, as not all of your options are created equally.

Avoid condoms that are lubricated, especially if you’re using a silicone sex toy. The type of lube that’s on these condoms doesn’t mesh well with silicone and can damage it, especially over time. Use latex condoms with your silicone toys instead. If you’d like to use a condom to safely protect and share a porous sex toy, you’ll want to use polyurethane condoms in particular. Otherwise, you risk harming the integrity of your toy.

  1. Don’t mix anal and vaginal use.

Passing a sex toy from person to person isn’t the only way you can expose yourself to infection. It can just as easily happen when you mix anal and vaginal play. Going from vaginal to anal stimulation isn’t as big a deal, but you never want to go from anal to vaginal. Anal bacteria can easily lead to very nasty, very serious infections when allowed to migrate to other areas of the body.

Yes, stopping to clean your toy first is a possible solution. If you’re like most people though, you’re either unlikely to want to stop in the heat of the moment or to do a rush job when it comes to cleaning. For that reason, you might want to consider using a different toy for each hole. Then you can play to your heart’s content without ruining the moment and take care of clean-up later.

  1. Establish a solid cleaning routine for your toys.

We’ve touched on the importance of washing your sex toys after every use when you’re using them with other people. However, it’s just as important to keep things clean and hygienic when you use a toy only on yourself. Sex toys that are washed frequently aren’t just less likely to spread disease. They actually last longer and maintain their integrity better as well.

Always wash every toy after every use. If you want to be extra safe, it’s a good idea to wash a toy before each use as well, especially if it’s been a while since you used it last. It’s easier than you think for your toys to pick up pet hair or lint, especially if you store yours under a mattress or in a bedside table drawer.

  1. Make sure you’re using the right soaps.

Yes, there actually is a “right” type of soap to use when it comes to sex toys. Also, it’s not the antibacterial soap you might think it is. While antibacterial soaps might seem like they make sense, especially if you’re worried about spreading disease, they actually leave a residue behind. Go for mild, unscented dish soap instead. It’s safe enough to trust with the plates you eat from and it’s ideal for cleaning anything that makes contact with your most intimate body parts as well.

You may also want to consider keeping some dedicated sex toy cleaner on hand. It’s simple and convenient to use, as you simply spray it on and wipe it off again. Perfect for remaining discreet if you live with roommates, children, or other family members you don’t necessarily want knowing about your extensive dildo collection! It’s ideal for people that simply don’t like the idea of toting a toy into the bathroom or the kitchen every single time they enjoy a quickie in the middle of the day as well.

  1. Using the right lube is important as well.

Remember when we talked about the importance of not using lubricated condoms on your sex toys? That rule of thumb applies to standard personal lubes as well. Lubes that are silicone-based or oil-based are phenomenal choices for sex that only involves flesh because of the excellent staying power they deliver. However, they’re not good for most of your sex toys.

Lubes that are silicone-based or oil-based lubes actually cling to toys that are made of silicone, jelly, rubber, or similar materials and can break down the surface over time. Go for water-based lubes or hybrid lubes instead. Just be sure to wash your toys all the more thoroughly after use.

  1. Make sure you’re using the right toys for anal play.

While many sex toys are more versatile than you probably realize, it’s especially important to make sure you’re careful when it comes to anal use. The wrong toys can damage the delicate tissue in and around your anal area. It’s also not unheard of for toys to become lost inside you or your partner if you use the wrong options.

Naturally, you don’t want your play sessions to end in tears, an embarrassing emergency room visit, or both, so always make sure you’re using toys that are designed for anal use. They include important safety features (i.e. flared ends) that will prevent them from becoming lost inside the body. They’re usually specially designed to maximize anal pleasure as well, so really, they’re too good to miss out on.

At the end of the day, you want your toy collection to enhance your sex life and make it better in exciting new ways. Making sure to stay safe, smart, and informed is the absolutely best way to do that.

Which Sex Toy Is the Best Fit for You and Your Partner?

While there’s certainly something to be said for adding the right sex toy to your solo play routine, you’re really missing out on something special if you’re not using toys with your partner as well. Toys can greatly enhance any sexual experience for either partner or both of them at once, giving you a wealth of new experiences and sensations to explore together.

Even so, it’s one thing to know you’re ready to make the jump from just thinking about using toys together to actually doing it. It’s another to actually know where to start. Here we’ll go over everything you need to know to get the most out of your first experiences. We’ll make some choice suggestions as to which options are the best places to start based on what you’re looking for as well.

The Basics of Getting Started

If you’ve never used sex toys with your partner before, it’s natural and normal to have a lot of questions about how to bring it up and where to start if the other person turns out to like the idea. While there are no hard and fast rules to follow, keeping a few basic steps in mind can help you find your way through the process.

  1. Just talk about it.

Although spontaneity in the bedroom is awesome, it’s probably not the best way to introduce something like a toy into the mix. After all, not everyone is comfortable using toys and those that are still appreciate a heads up before trying something very new.

That said, the best way to approach things is to simply sit down with your partner and open the topic up for discussion to make sure they’re 100% cool with the idea. If they’re hesitant, it’s fine to ask why and talk your way through the reasons, but never pressure someone that just isn’t into it. Not everything is for everybody!

  1. Figure out what exactly you want to try.

Once you and your partner have both agreed that bringing toys into the bedroom is an idea you each like, it’s time to figure out what options you’re most interested in. Take turns discussing what you’d each like to get out of the experience of using a toy together and go from there.

Are you looking for something to help a man last longer or make it easier for a woman to orgasm during intercourse? Do you want something interactive you can experiment with together? Are you looking to start exploring anal play, BDSM, or roleplaying? There are toys capable of helping with all of those things and more, which we’ll get into in a moment.

  1. Shop for toys as a couple.

While it’s fine if one of you wants to simply pick something out once you’ve both discussed things, it’s important to note what a great bonding experience shopping for toys together can be. It makes it easier to wind up with something you’re both equally excited about trying as well.

Start by browsing a little bit online. Most online sex toy shops will have an entire section dedicated just to couple’s toys, so that’s a great place to start the search. Those are hardly the only toys you can use together though. In actuality, any sex toy is appropriate for use as a couple, so don’t eschew something you both like the idea of simply because it’s not specifically marketed to couples.

Once you’ve used the toy (or toys) you picked out together, make sure you take the time to communicate afterwards. Sometimes a given option sounds great on paper, but doesn’t quite do the job in reality. One or both of you might discover you want something with stronger vibrations or simply wish to try a different type of stimulation. It’s all part of the process of figuring out what you both enjoy, both individually and as a couple.

Which Toys to Consider First

While there are no limits on the number of toys you might want to add to your collection eventually, some options may be better first experiences for some couples than others. Keep the following options in mind as you shop together for some insight into what to consider.

For a No-Pressure First Experience

Not every couple is ready to go straight for the butt plugs, the paddles, or the mega-deluxe sex toy kits right away. Some folks like to ease into things and don’t want there to be a lot of pressure to get really wild right off the bat.

If that sounds like you, your partner, or both of you, try a classic wand massager on for size. It’s made to do double duty as a massager and a sex toy, so you’re free to start with a massage for your aching muscles and take things downtown only if you decide you’re both comfortable. Wand massagers can also double as a solo toy for either one of you if you prefer.

For Foreplay Lovers

Sex toys don’t have to be part of the main event. Lots of couples prefer using them just during foreplay as a way to get things going and that’s perfectly fine. Try something versatile like a finger vibe, a bullet vibrator, or a vibrating egg.

Small, powerful vibrators like these can be used in a variety of ways and are capable of stimulating pretty much every body part. Use them to give a tingle to his shaft or scrotum, as well as her clitoris, nipples, or inner thighs. They can be great ways to help either partner along in the pleasure department during intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex as well. It’s all up to you, so just be creative!

For Buzzworthy Intercourse

Lots of couples love what a vibrating toy brings to the table. However, they want something that lets them enjoy a pleasant buzz during intercourse without the toy having to be held in place by a free hand or two.

Try a horseshoe-shaped wearable couple’s vibrator like the We-Vibe. You’ll enjoy a sleek fit that’s just right for the experience you’re looking to have. She’ll certainly enjoy ample stimulation to both her G-spot and her clitoris, but don’t underestimate the value of a few good vibrations for him either. Most options feature multiple vibration modes, making it easy to finetune each experience to suit both of you.

For Fantastic Erection Enhancement

There are awesome erections capable of getting the job done and then there are the epically rock-hard ones every guy dreams about achieving. If the two of you would love an easy way to give him the biggest, hardest erections possible, you’ll definitely want to consider trying a cock ring on for size.

Cock rings are designed to fit comfortably but snugly around the base of the penis or around both the penis and testicles at once. Not only does this produce an interesting sensation in and of itself, but it keeps his cock super hard and huge. It helps him last longer as well. There are even vibrating cock rings available that bring the additional benefits of a bullet vibe to the table.

For Long-Distance Lovebirds

These days, there are any number of reason why a given couple might have to spend more time apart than they like. Some may be involved in long-distance relationships with people living too far away to get together but so often. Others may be trying to balance high-powered careers with the ever important healthy sex life. Sure, video chat and phone sex are great, but wouldn’t it be nice if you could enjoy something even more interactive?

You might want to try a remote controlled sex toy on for size. Such toys operate via a handy smartphone app, making it possible for one partner to use the toy and the other to control it from anywhere whether that’s across the room, across town, or the other side of the country. There are even pairs of sex toys that synch with one another, allowing each partner to “feel” what the other is doing wherever they might be.

For Trying a Little of Everything

Let’s say you’re both not necessarily sure what you’d like to try first, but you’re each very open to trying a couple of different experiences right off the bat. Lots of sex toy manufacturers sell full-scale sex toy kits that contain a sampling of their best options.

Although what’s included varies from kit to kit, many options will include a wearable couple’s vibrator, a smaller vibrator like a bullet for a little extra stimulation, some lube designed to go with all included items, and possibly a couple of other little treats too. It’s a great way to mix and match, as well as get a new toy collection off to a good start.

Remember, there are no wrong ways to start exploring sex toys as a couple. If something sounds like a good time to the both of you, go for it! Don’t be afraid to mix things up and get creative as well. We promise you’ll both be glad you did!

7 Important Questions to Ask When Shopping for a Vibrator

Whether you’re brand new to sex toys or have been absolutely in love with yours for a long time, one thing’s for certain. The wide, wonderful world of sex toys is vast indeed. So vast that even experienced toy lovers sometimes need a little help making sense of the hundreds of options they have to choose from these days.

Here we’ll go over some of the most important questions to ask yourself before and after you start the shopping process to ensure maximum satisfaction with your purchase. You’ll be enjoying your next favorite vibe before you know it.

  1. How new am I to vibrators (and to sex toys in general)?

The first thing you’ll want to consider before evaluating your options is what you’re hoping to get out of the experience of using a vibrator. Are you buying a vibrator as a way to get to know your body better and learn more about what types of sensation make you orgasm? Will this be your first time actually using a vibrator or simply your first time buying one? If vibrating toys are entirely new territory for you, it’s probably best to keep things as simple as possible.

Consider making your first vibe a smaller option designed to deliver focused stimulation straight to your clitoris (i.e. a vibrating bullet or a finger vibe). Numerous studies show that around 70% of all women require direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm and bullet-style vibrators are great at delivering this. They’re also easy to use, not to mention versatile, so they’re perfect for folks that like to use toys both alone and with a partner.

  1. How much variety do I like when I masturbate?

Take a moment to consider how you most like to masturbate. Do you go about pleasuring yourself the same way every single time or do you like to mix things up? Do you prefer super intense, localized sensations or do you enjoy stimulation that brings your entire vulva into play?

If you want a toy that’s capable of stimulating you in a variety of different ways, you’re a good candidate for a vaginal vibrator. Of course, a good vaginal vibe can be inserted, but it can also be used just to stimulate the clitoris when that’s all you’re in the mood for. Vaginal vibrators also come in a variety of different shapes and colors, varying from neon penis-shaped works of art to relatively neutral shapes in subtle colors.

You may also want to consider whether you’d like your vibrator of choice to be even more versatile still. Options like vibrating wands are great for people that like to start a pleasure session with a nice, soothing muscle massage and move things downtown a little later on. Wands are nice, non-threatening ways to introduce vibrating toys into play with a male partner as well.

  1. Do I want to be able to enjoy multiple types of sensation at one time?

Some people prefer to focus on one type of stimulation at a time, but others enjoy their playtime best when they don’t have to choose. If you’re the latter, then you’d probably really enjoy a vibe that offers simultaneous internal and external stimulation. Iconic options like the world-famous rabbit vibe are specially designed to deliver deep, O-inducing G-spot stimulation for sure, but also include a tickler that perfect for stimulating your clit at the same time. Even if you’re not already a multi-point stimulation convert, a rabbit is a great way to explore it during your private playtime.

Rabbits aren’t the only vibrators out there capable of delivering multiple stimulation types either. For instance, some toys can be used to stimulate the sensitive nerves in your anal area while you also enjoy vaginal or clitoral stimulation. There are even pulsating vibrators out there that simulate the back and forth sensation of penetrative sex while also delivering the powerful vibrations that already do such a great job at getting you off.

  1. Am I looking for something I can use with my male partner?

The days when vibrators were thought of solely as female masturbation aids are long behind us. Lots of men are discovering how delicious some well-focused vibrations can feel when used to stimulate their shaft, scrotum, or perineum as well. As men become more and more comfortable with vibrators as a concept, vibrating toys are increasingly becoming part of couples play.

While there’s certainly nothing wrong with simply letting your vibrating dildo do double duty as a partners’ toy, lots of men aren’t exactly jazzed about playing with anything too penis-like. Couples play is a perfect fit for ultra-versatile vibrators like vibrating eggs or bullet vibes for that reason. However, vibrating toys made specifically for play that includes a male partner are way too good to miss out on.

Do you love intercourse, but find you need additional clitoral stimulation in order to actually reach orgasm? Try a wearable vibe designed to deliver exactly that. Would your male partner really appreciate a vibrating couple’s toy made with his anatomy in mind? Treat him to a vibrating cock ring that will make sex more buzzworthy for both of you. There are even remote controlled vibrating couples toys that can make time apart a lot easier to bear, so don’t be afraid to explore the possibilities!

  1. How discreet do I need my vibrator to be?

Unless you happen to live alone, it’s highly likely that discreetly enjoying a little solo pleasure time requires you to get creative. After all, no one likes the experience of being walked in on by a roommate, a houseguest, or a child that also shares their space! Plus, you naturally just want to enjoy your alone time without worrying about whether or not that telltale buzzing can be heard from the next room.

If that state of affairs sounds familiar, then you’ll be thrilled to know that not all vibrators are the same when it comes to the associated noise level. Look for an option designed to operate as quietly as possible. Not only do you not have to worry about other folks in the house hearing, but a quieter vibe will be less distracting for you too.

  1. What material is the best fit for me?

Shopping for a new vibrator has more in common with shopping for clothing than you might otherwise think. Before you decide on a new blouse or skirt, you’d definitely check the label first, right? You totally need to know whether it’s “wash and wear” or “dry clean only” so you also know whether or not it’s a good fit for your lifestyle. The same is true of your new would-be vibrator. What it’s made of is just as important as how well it works.

Each material option you’ll come across has its own advantages and drawbacks, but some are lower maintenance than others. Jelly rubbers can feel quite nice, but they’re also porous, which makes them hard to clean and maintain. Hard plastics are good, solid options that are easier to clean but don’t tend to have as pleasant a feel.

Silicones are a good fit for pretty much everyone, so unless you’ve got your heart set on a specific material already, go this route. You don’t need anything special to clean and maintain your silicone vibrator, as silicone is non-porous. Plain soap and water totally does the trick! Plus, silicone is an especially great fit for vibrating toys, as it transmits vibrations more effectively than the alternatives.

  1. Do I want to be able to travel with my vibrator?

If you’re new to vibrators, taking one on the go might be the last thing on your mind right now. You might change your mind once you get attached to yours though, so portability should definitely be a consideration for frequent travelers. Most vibrators are fine to take along in your carry-on luggage, so long as they’re shorter than 7 inches in length. (Anything longer can be considered “club-like”, which violates TSA policy.) You’ll also probably want to pick a vibe with a power lock to prevent it from switching on unexpectedly in transit (every traveling sex toy lover’s worst nightmare).

You might also want to give some thought to how you’ll want to use your vibrator once you reach your destination. Do you want to be able to get a little frisky with a partner (or by yourself) in the hot tub, bath tub, or ocean? Make sure your vibe is waterproof. Want to be able to carry it with you everywhere with complete discretion? Look for a vibe that mimics the look of another everyday object (i.e. lipstick or jewelry). There are even vibrators made specifically with the needs of frequent travelers in mind that might be a good fit for you.

At the end of the day, you have more options to choose from in regards to vibrators than you probably thought possible. Explore the possibilities today and take your intimate life to the next level!

How to Choose the Right Male Masturbation Sleeve for You

We’re living in a pretty sex-positive society these days, so it’s not surprising that sex toys seem to be absolutely everywhere. You see them on TV and in the movies. People are talking openly about them both online and offline. Folks finally seem to be realizing masturbation doesn’t have to be something dirty or shameful you pretend you don’t do. In fact, a healthy solo sex life is widely considered a great way for men and women alike to get to know their bodies and become better at partnered sex in the process.

As a result, sex toys aren’t considered “just for women” anymore. Options like male masturbation sleeves are becoming increasingly popular as well. However, knowing you’re interested in taking your own solo play sessions to the next level with a sleeve of your own is one thing. Actually understanding which of the many options out there on the market would be right for you is another. Here we’ll take a closer look at everything you need to know and consider when making your decision.

  1. Choose an orifice.

If you’re unfamiliar with the wide, wonderful world of masturbation sleeves, it’s probably tempting to assume there isn’t much difference between one toy and another as far as the opening is concerned. In actuality, there are masturbation sleeves that can mimic any type of experience you’d like to enjoy.

Many sleeves are designed to look and feel like vaginal openings, of course. Others are specially created to mimic the sensations associated with oral sex or anal sex. Still more sleeves are created to feel extra tight. For men that honestly prefer a sleeve that’s purely functional, there are options that are completely neutral as well. Because of the sheer number of choices out there, lots of men enjoy changing things up and maintain collections filled with lots of different sleeves.

  1. Choose your material.

As is the case with any type of sex toy, male masturbation sleeves come in many different materials. As all of your options are going to be designed specifically for male pleasure, they’re all going to be stretchy and soft to one degree or another. However, each still has its own unique benefits and drawbacks.

Take jelly sleeves, for instance. Jellies are certainly stretchy enough to get the job done in the pleasure department. They’re also very affordable, making them a great choice for men on a budget or that want to make sure sleeves are right for them before making a larger investment. However, some men dislike the texture and odor such materials sometimes have.

If that turns out to be the case for you, TPR or TPE might be a good alternative, as they’re odorless. (They’re also a bit more expensive.) You’ll also find that lots of sleeves are made from silicone. Just keep in mind that silicone doesn’t have as much stretch or give as other options might. This can make finding the perfect fit more of a challenge, especially if you’re a bigger guy. Don’t be afraid to experiment a bit and try different materials on for size until you find one you like.

  1. Figure out which sleeve size is right for you.

Speaking of finding the perfect fit, sleeve size is also something you’ll want to consider when picking one out for the first time. Every penis (and every man, for that matter) is unique, so you’ll find you have many choices as far as different widths and lengths go. The average sleeve is designed for the average guy, so if you’ve consistently been given reason to believe you’re smaller or larger than average, keep that in mind as you shop.

Most sleeves are going to consist of a tube with a larger opening on the entry end and a smaller opening in the opposite end. All tubes are going to be made to stretch at least somewhat – some up to three inches — so as to accommodate men of various sizes. Just know that the dimensions listed on the packaging or in the product description describe the product in its inactive state, so don’t rule out an option you’re super interested in just because it sounds a little tight on paper.

  1. Know that length is important too.

You should also keep in mind that while sleeves can stretch considerably girth-wise, they’re not designed to stretch as much length-wise. Many men don’t necessarily find it unpleasant to slide all the way through the sleeve, but if you’re a larger man that wants to be able to sink fully into your sleeve of choice, you might want to shop sleeves made especially for well-endowed builds.

Men that know they’re shorter than average may want to remain aware that the textures toward the ends of most sleeves are often especially intense, making a shorter sleeve well worth considering. Don’t stress too much about penis size as a rule though. Just understand that taking an extra second or two to consider yours can ensure you get the absolute most out of whatever toy you select.

  1. Decide whether or not vibrations sounds pleasant to you.

Many male masturbation sleeves are pretty straightforward and consist of just the sleeve. However, some come with a few more bells and whistles that can be very pleasant. For instance, many men really find vibration really enhances the sleeve experience for them, so that might be something to consider if you’ve tried and liked other toys like vibrating cock rings.

Are you the type of guy that might want to try a vibrating sleeve, but doesn’t necessarily want to add vibration every single time? Look for a masturbation sleeve that features multiple settings or includes a vibrating bullet that can simply be removed if you’re in the mood for a more old-fashioned experience.

  1. Consider the suction options associated with a given sleeve.

After you’ve spent some time window shopping, so to speak, you’ll also realize that male masturbation sleeves can come with different suction choices. As touched on above, lots of sleeves are open-ended to make cleaning after use a little bit more convenient. However, an open ended sleeve can’t really provide the same degree of pressure and suction a closed sleeve can

For some men, that’s not a problem in the least. However, other men really do like that tighter, more realistic feeling and consider it worth having clean-up be a bit more involved. If you’re not willing to choose between the two, you can consider springing for a luxury item that allows for even more options. For instance, lots of Fleshlight products allow users to finetune the amount of suction via a removable or adjustable end cap. Again, there’s no right or wrong option. Just choose whatever makes the most sense for you.

  1. Know that there are extras to consider as well.

Aside from the practical logistics of how a particular sleeve is going to feel and how easy it’s going to be to clean and maintain, there are additional criteria to consider that may or may not add value to your purchase. For instance, you’ll find there are masturbation sleeves out there that are modeled after specific adult film stars or celebrities. If you’ve got a thing for anyone in particular, such items could be great ways to help bring your personal fantasies to life.

Some masturbation sleeves also come as part of a kit designed specifically for someone interested in building a sex toy collection or in getting as much value as is humanly possible out of whatever toy they do ultimately purchase. Such kits might include adult DVDs, lubes, shower mounts, or special cleaning supplies.

Getting the Most Out of Your Masturbation Sleeve

Choosing the right male masturbation sleeve is only the tip of the iceberg. You’ll also want to make sure you get as much out of your purchase as possible. Keep the following tips in mind.

  • Make sure you keep your sleeve meticulously clean. Not only is this essential for hygiene purposes, but it will help preserve the integrity and function of your toy. Always wash your toys thoroughly after every use.
  • Don’t use just any old lubricant with your sleeve. The wrong ones can actually ruin your toy, so make sure you’re selecting water-safe options that are safe for use with all toys or buying special lubes designed especially for use with masturbation sleeves.
  • You can extend the life of your toy even further by purchasing products designed especially for masturbation sleeves. For instance, many sleeve manufacturers also sell special powders that help maintain the look, feel, and function of sleeve materials.
  • You don’t have to keep your sleeve to yourself. Bringing sex toys into the bedroom during playtime can be a wonderful way to bond with a partner and add variety to your sex life and sleeves are no exception.

At the end of the day, toys like masturbation sleeves can bring a lot to the table when it comes to both solo sex and partnered play. Explore the possibilities today!

Is Your Partner Bothered By Your Vibrator?

More than half of all women own a vibrator these days and it’s not hard to see why. Vibrators are excellent ways to get to know your body and take control of your own pleasure to say the least. Sure, you could just get yourself off using your hand, but a good vibe brings something special to the table that’s just too good to miss out on. It can teach you a lot you can use to become better at partnered sex as well. In other words, vibrators are amazing and millions of women simply can’t imagine their intimate lives without theirs.

But what about your partner? Here in the 21st century, plenty of guys are super supportive of their lady’s relationship with her vibrator. Some even think it’s pretty darned hot to say the least. However, others feel completely differently. They feel intimidated and bothered. Some even feel jealous or angry. Naturally, every woman hopes her partner will be the excited, supportive type… but what if he’s not? How do you deal with it when your partner hates the idea of your sex toys and what can you do to help improve matters? Here we’ll go over everything you need to know.

Unpacking Your Man’s Reaction

Maybe he’s already found out about your vibrator, either because you told him about it or he stumbled across it on his own. Maybe you just want to be prepared for the day that finally does happen. Whatever the case may be, it’s normal to wonder what his reaction says about him, as well as have questions about what you should do next. Let’s take a look at the possibilities.

He’s Supportive

This is probably the reaction most women hope for when they finally introduce their partner to their vibrator and with good reason. A supportive response means your man is independent and secure in himself. He understands that it’s normal and natural to have a solo sex life, even if you’re in a relationship. After all, he probably has one, so it’s nice to know he’s on board with you having one too.

What should you do? Seize the opportunity to tell him how happy you are to have him and express appreciation for his open-mindedness. Not every girl is this lucky!

He’s Excited

As touched on above, some guys don’t just respond with support when they find out about their partner’s vibrator. They’re super enthusiastic about it. An excited response most likely indicates an adventurous spirit that’s totally into trying new things, both in and out of the bedroom. In fact, your man probably started weighing the possibilities the minute he got the news!

What should you do? Embrace the fun that could come with sharing your toys. Open up a dialogue and invite him to share his thoughts. Bring your vibe into the bedroom sometime if he’s game. It could turn out to be a sublimely pleasurable experience for both of you.

He’s Intimidated

Not every guy is necessarily in the know as to how natural and normal it is for a woman to own a vibrator. Some are less experienced while others are just plain unfamiliar. If that’s your man, then there’s a chance he was confused by the initial discovery. He might even feel a little intimidated or obsolete. Guys that respond this way aren’t bad guys, but they’re nevertheless worried about how they measure up to something that can literally go all night and get you off pretty much every single time.

What should you do? Now’s the time to reassure your man that no matter how much you may like your vibrator, it’s no substitute for the real thing. He masturbates when you’re not around or unavailable and you do the same. No big deal, right?

He’s Angry and/or Jealous

If your boyfriend doesn’t yet know about your vibrator, this is probably what the worst case scenario looks like to you as far as his finding out. You’re not wrong to be worried about it either. Some men really do react with outright anger or jealousy to the discovery of a vibrator. It’s an indicator of some self-esteem issues and a serious lack of confidence.

What should you do? The best thing you can do in this situation is just be honest and ask him to do the same. Explain to him that sometimes you use a vibrator to masturbate, but it doesn’t mean anything’s wrong with him any more than his masturbating when you’re not around means anything is wrong with you. Your man needs to get in better touch with his own feelings and this a great opportunity for you to help him with that.

How to Bring Your Man in on the Action

So let’s say that now he knows. He’s reacted. The two of you have talked about it and he’s hopefully come to accept the existence of your vibrator, no matter how reluctantly. What’s next? Of course, some couples simply decide on a “don’t ask don’t tell” policy as far as how they each masturbate on their own time, but there’s a better option.

This is the perfect opportunity to take your sex life together to the next level by actually getting your man involved. You love having sex with him. You also love your alone time with your vibrator. The two go better together than you might otherwise think and we think your man might agree once he gets the hang of things. Here are some suggestions for turning your bedroom into a truly buzzworthy place to be.

  1. Talk about it.

Unless you already know your boyfriend is the type that likes surprises, the best way to introduce your vibrator into your coupled sex life is to simply bring it up for discussion the next time you two are engaging in a little pillow talk. Start with “it would be so hot to…” and then finish with something you’d love to try that includes your vibe. Then see where the conversation goes from there.

  1. Give him a demonstration.

Most guys love nothing more than a spicy little show that’s meant for their eyes only. If that sounds like your guy, consider treating him to one that involves your vibrator. Tell him you want to show him how you make yourself feel good when you’re alone. Then go to town. Don’t forget to invite him to participate, should he feel the urge.

  1. Let him take your vibe for a test drive.

Many people that are less experienced when it comes to sex toys make the mistake of thinking vibrators are just for women and this is hardly the case. Vibrators are designed to stimulate nerve endings in a variety of pleasurable ways and all bodies have those. That said, it might be worth asking your man if you can use your vibe on him.

Keep in mind that this doesn’t have to involve penetration (unless he wants it to). Start by giving his shaft, his scrotum, or the head of his penis a little buzz with something relatively non-intimidating (like a finger vibe) and then take it from there. Encourage him to tell you what feels best and make suggestions as far as what he’d like you to do next.

  1. Start with a massage.

Anyone that’s ever used a vibrating massager to soothe tired, aching muscles after a long, hard day at work or at the gym already knows how great vibrations can feel. Lots of sex toys are actually made to double as muscle massagers (i.e. magic wand-style vibrators). That said, a nice, soothing massage is often a really nice, low-pressure way to introduce a vibrator into your sex life.

Start by adding a sweet, no-strings-attached massage to your routine as foreplay at first. Then if either of you is so inclined, you can move things downtown and explore some new horizons together.

  1. Shop together.

Although there’s definitely something to be said for sharing the toys you already have, it also makes sense to shop for sex toys together at some point, especially once you’ve both decided you like the variety they bring to the table. This is the best way to ensure your new bedroom accessories appeal to both of you.

You don’t necessarily have to go to a brick and mortar shop unless you really want to. Just flip open your laptop some night and browse your favorite online sex shop as part of a fun evening in together. Take turns making suggestions and commenting on the options. Then decide on a sexy purchase and make it together.

At the end of the day, it’s understandable if vibrators and sex toys seem intimidating to a partner that isn’t in the know. However, it’s easy to turn such a situation into a fun learning experience for both of you. Get started today! Your next adventure as a couple awaits.

9 Must-Know Tips for Using Sex Toys Together

Haven’t you heard? Sex toys aren’t just for women anymore. What’s more, men are a lot cooler with the idea of them than you might realize. These days, putting unnecessary limits on how you and your partner are allowed to enjoy each other (or yourselves) is out. Opening your world to new possibilities that could have a lot to offer in the bedroom, on the other hand, is the order of the day!

Whether you and your partner have been using toys together for a long time or are only just now thinking about giving it a try, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve got plenty of tips, moves, and ideas for you to try the next time you’re in the mood to get busy together with your favorite items.

1.      Do your shopping together.

These days, sex toys are the very furthest thing from one size fits all. You literally have hundreds of different options to choose from, which can be overwhelming if either of you is new to the sex toy experience. There are classic options like vibrators and dildos that nearly everyone is familiar with. There are toys designed specifically for couples to use together as well. There are even high-tech toys that use remote control and Wi-Fi tech to take things to even more astonishing levels.

Turn the process of choosing new toys to use together into a bonding experience by visiting your favorite online toy emporium and shopping together. It’s a great way to open up some sexy dialogue about what each of you really likes, as well as what you think you might enjoy. Once you’ve settled on a couple of options, buy a toy or two together and start making plans about how you’ll break it in. Alternatively, one of you could buy something for the other as a surprise.

2.      Stock up on plenty of lube.

When it comes to sex, lube is about as close as it gets to a magic elixir that makes everything better on so many levels. It’s not just good for making things go more smoothly when it’s time for you and your partner to get busy. Lube can greatly increase the satisfaction level of solo play as well. It can be an absolute wonder when it comes to toys, so you can and should add it to the mix when it’s time to raid the toy chest.

Just make absolutely sure your lube of choice is actually compatible with your toys. Some silicone-based lubricants are fantastic for flesh-on-flesh sex, but can ruin your silicone-based toys. Consider starting a collection of water-based lubricants for use with your favorite playthings. They’ll work well with just about any sex toy, no problem.

3.      Get creative with your vibrators.

Not sure where to start as far as adding sex toys to your intimate life with your partner? Consider starting with what you might already have on hand. Many, many women already own a vibrator that they use to enhance solo play sessions. You don’t have to be a woman to enjoy the pleasure a vibrator can bring though. You don’t have to insert them or use them by yourself either.

Try adding a vibrator to standard missionary sex to get a feel for how you can enjoy the unique sensation together. Just position yourself as you normally would to engage in missionary. Then put the vibrator between the two of you so that you can share the good vibrations as you make love. Trust us when we say it will bring a lot of extra oomph to the table for both of you. This is also a great solution for women that have trouble orgasming during missionary sex, of course.

4.      Start slow and then amp things up.

If one of you is completely new to using toys, consider planning a break-in session where you can experiment a little. Are you a gal with a male partner that already knows her way around a vibrator or perhaps already has a collection of sex toys? Consider opening up your toy chest and introducing your partner to each item. Explain what each of them does. Then invite him to choose a toy he’d like to use on you.

Start by letting him watch you use it on yourself. Show him some of your favorite moves and be vocal about how good each one feels. Then invite him to take the wheel and use the toy to finish you off. Not only will a “teaching session” like this be a hot experience for both of you, but your partner will have a better idea what to expect the first time you bring your toy to bed for “together time”.

5.      Give a vibrating ring a try.

While there’s certainly nothing wrong with sticking to the standard vibrators and dildos you may be used to, don’t limit yourself to those things unless you really want to. There are quite a few toys that lend themselves too well to partnered sex to be ignored. Assuming at least one of you has a penis, a vibrating ring makes an excellent choice to start with.

The ring is designed to slip comfortably onto the base of the penis and be used during intercourse, providing a fantastically intense experience for both of you. Some models even come with attachments, special texturing, or unique designs that provide an excellent amount of clitoral stimulation to boot. You might even want to try wearing your vibrating ring during anal for a completely new pleasure sensation you’re both sure to enjoy.

6.      Add it to the equation before your clothes even come off.

You don’t have to wait to break out a toy like a vibrator until the point where all your clothes come off. It makes for a great way to jazz up foreplay as well. It will definitely get you both excited for the main event.

Try using a small finger-style vibrator to tease your partner and get them thinking about everything else that will be happening shortly by giving them a little buzz through their clothing wherever you think it might feel good. You don’t have to stick to the genitals either. Try running the vibe over their nipples or along the inside of their thigh. Experiment a little until the both of you find some moves you like to give and receive.

7.      Let a vibrator take your oral game to entirely new levels.

If your guy is like most, then he probably absolutely loves oral. He also probably thinks there’s no way getting head could get any better than it already is. Why not use your favorite vibrating toy to show him how absolutely wrong he is? Try holding the vibe against your cheek as you take him into your mouth and work your magic. He’ll love the way the familiar, appealing feeling of your wet mouth works with the new and exciting “quivering” sensation the vibe brings to the table. Trust us on that one!

He can use an insertion-style vibe to treat you to an extra special experience the next time he goes down on you as well. Teach him how to angle the vibe as he inserts it so that it stimulates your G-spot (or consider investing in a special G-spot vibrator that makes it easy to hit all the right notes, so to speak). Then let him go to town with his tongue as usual. You’ll both love how intense the combo makes your orgasm.

8.      Take cowgirl sex to the next level.

Once your guy gets comfortable with the sensation a vibrator produces when the two of you use it together, consider taking things to the next level the next time you get down cowgirl style. A guy’s perineum is very sensitive. (It’s that little patch of skin between his anus and his scrotum, in case you’re unfamiliar.) It also feels pretty awesome when it’s stimulated by a vibrating toy.

Consider starting small with something non-phallic as far as shape. (Not every guy will be comfortable with it otherwise.) Smaller, egg-shaped vibrators are great choices when it comes to stimulating the perineum. So are finger vibes. Simply hold it behind you against the correct spot as you ride him.

9.      Try using toys separately… together.

A lot of people underestimate the value of a good mutual masturbation session and they really shouldn’t. It’s a great opportunity to relax and focus completely on your own pleasure while also sharing intimacy with your partner. Plus, it’s incredibly hot to hear and see your partner enjoying themselves (not to mention enjoying you enjoying yourself).

Bringing toys into the mix is a great way to turn the dial up on an activity that’s already pretty dang fun, if we’re being honest. Naturally, there are lots of toys designed for female pleasure, but it’s worth noting that there are pleasure sleeves and other toys made especially for men as well. Don’t forget to explore these as part of your ongoing sexual adventure together. They deserve a place in any couple’s joint toy chest!

11 Tips for Maximizing the Life of Your Vibrator

Although most of us forget to think of them that way, motorized sex toys like vibrators are still electronics. Just like your hairdryer or your favorite electric shaver, your trusty vibe contains moving parts that will wear out sooner or later. Eventually the entire device will need to be replaced.

While there’s no way to avoid having to say good-by to your favorite vibrator someday, you can make sure it’s with you for as long as possible with proper care and maintenance. Here we’ll go over everything you need to know to get the most possible use out of your favorite toys.

1.      Understand the lifespan of your vibrator.

Even the best, most expensive vibrators aren’t made to last forever. Vibrators come equipped with motors that are filled with lots of tiny little parts. Such parts can burn out easily and quickly in comparison to other electronics, especially with lots and lots of use.

All things considered, it’s reasonable to expect the average vibe to last about 3-4 months with frequent use and good maintenance. Higher quality vibrators may, of course, be expected to last a bit longer. As is the case with many electronics, your vibrator may have come with a guarantee that it will last a certain amount of time. Make sure you understand that guarantee, as well as the protocol for returning the product if it doesn’t last as long as it should.

2.      Don’t run your vibrator for too long at a time.

Generally speaking, it’s not recommended that you run your vibrator for more than 20-30 minutes at a time. Remember what we said above about vibrator motors being small and filled with lots of tiny parts. Because of their small size, they can overheat really easily. They need to be allowed ample time to cool down properly.

If you’re planning a marathon pleasure session either on your own or with a partner, consider bringing several toys to the party. Switch things up frequently when it comes to your motorized toys to make sure the motors will last as long as possible.

3.      Remove the batteries when your vibe isn’t in use.

Removing your vibrator’s batteries when you’re not using it helps your toy last longer in two different ways. First of all, it won’t ever be left on accidentally, leading to premature motor burnout. If you keep yours in a nightstand or drawer, it won’t switch on accidentally while you’re hunting around for nearby items either.

Secondly, it reduces the chances of a battery ever corroding inside your toy. This does occasionally happen and when it does, it almost always means the end of your high quality vibrator, no matter how new or well-kept it might have been.

4.      Make sure you’re cleaning your vibrator often enough.

As with any item that gets up close and personal with your naughty bits, hygiene is really important when it comes to your vibrator. It’s not just about keeping your own body healthy either (although that definitely ought to be a priority). It’s also about preserving the life of the toy. Bodily fluids, sex lube residue, and additional grime can build up on a vibrator’s surface.  Corrosion, degradation, or discoloration will probably occur sooner or later as a result. Once that happens, you’ll need to replace the toy, even if the motor is still in good condition.

Always wash your toys after every use, even if you’re only using it on yourself instead of sharing with a partner. If you’re serious about keeping your toys in good condition, you may want to consider washing your toys before each use as well.

5.      Make sure you’re cleaning your vibrator with the right soap.

You don’t need to buy a special fancy soap to wash your vibrator with. You do need to steer clear of super harsh options and soaps that contain fragrance. You can never be sure of how such products will affect the integrity of your toys. Also, they can leave residue that might cause irritation if they ever came in contact with sensitive skin.

Instead, choose mild, unscented hand soap or dish soap. (It’s really not necessary to go for the antibacterial option.) Many people also like keeping a spray-on toy cleaner handy for quick or discreet clean-up after play time. Just spritz it on and wipe it right off again. Done!

6.      Use condoms on your rubber vibrators.

If your vibrator isn’t made of either hard plastic or silicone, it’s most likely made of rubber or some sort of rubber blend. Such materials can be porous, making them much harder to disinfect and clean. That means they don’t just get dirty with regular use. They stay dirty to at least some degree no matter how meticulously you clean them.

Consider using condoms on vibrators like these, even if no one uses the toy but you. Condoms make it much easier to keep your fun hygienic, not to mention protect the integrity of your toy. They help reduce the chances of you or a partner ever having a negative reaction to the material the toy is made from as well.

7.      Keep an eye on the seal when it comes to your waterproof vibrators.

Waterproof vibrators are nothing short of fantastic. They make it possible to take your fun into the shower, the tub, or just about anywhere else you might be down for a little play without having to worry about what the moisture might do to your favorite items. Even so, it’s important to keep an eye on the seal with these types of toys.

Your waterproof vibrator is the wonder that it is thanks to a rubber O-ring that fits closely along the rim of the toy. Should that O-ring ever break or deteriorate, you can’t consider the vibrator waterproof any longer. At that point, you’ll either need to resign yourself to using it only under dry conditions or shop for a replacement.

8.      Treat your toys with a little TLC.

The more care with which you treat your vibrator, the longer you can expect it to be around to pleasure you. That said, be gentle with your toys. Don’t bend the cord, yank it, or use it to pull the toy it’s attached to around. Otherwise, broken connections and fraying could occur.

Be careful with the caps and closures as well. Don’t screw them on too tightly or treat them too roughly. Remember, your vibrator is still an electronic device. It deserves to be treated with the same tender loving care you’d treat your cell phone or your remote control.

9.      Regularly inspect toys and check for damage.

You don’t have to like your playtime rough for your favorite sex toys to be susceptible to damage. All vibrators are going to experience some wear and tear, even if you only use them occasionally. This is especially the case when it comes to cheaper items. For instance, vibes made of harder plastics can develop splits or cracks over time. Toys made of rubbers, jellies, and similar materials can rip or develop pockmarks. Glass items can chip or wind up with rough edges.

Consider giving all of your vibrators and other toys a once-over each month to check for damage of any kind. Make it a point to replace damaged items promptly. You don’t want a vibe that’s developed a crack or a split somewhere to catch on your delicate skin (or your partner’s).

10.  Make sure you’re using the right lube.

Not all lubricants are safe for use with all sex toys, up to and including your favorite vibrator. Silicone-based lubricants, for instance, might be fantastic for smoothing the way when you’re with your partner, but can cause “realistic skin” toys to degrade or deteriorate. Oil-based lubricants can actually damage not only sex toys, but condoms as well.

Make sure you’re always in the know as to whether or not your lube of choice is a safe fit for your toys. Alternatively, you could simply stick to water-based lubricants. Not only are they just fine for use with good old-fashioned skin and flesh, but they’re safe for use on the great majority of sex toys as well.

11.  Be careful how you store your vibrator.

If you’re like most people, you probably store your vibrator somewhere the cleaning lady, your children, or your houseguests are unlikely to simply stumble across it. However, stuffing your vibrator underneath your mattress or chucking it into the drawer of your nightstand really isn’t the best thing for the toy. Many toys – especially those made of soft silicone or similar substances – easily attract grime, dust, lint, and pet hair even when placed well out of the way.

Protect the integrity of the toy by first storing it in a soft bag, a box, or a case. (Many toys actually come with one.) Then return the item to your discreet hiding spot of choice. You’ll also want to avoid storing toys together. While it’s fine to store a collection in a single place like a chest or drawer, make sure each is further protected by its own bag or case as well. Your toys will thank you for it!

Everything You Need to Know About Traveling with Sex Toys

If you’re one of the many people that feels time away from home would be a lot more enjoyable with a couple of your favorite toys in tow, you’re not alone. If you and your partner regularly use toys or lubes as part of your sexual routine, it’s only natural to want to take a few of your favorite options with you on a romantic getaway. A well-chosen toy or two can make solo time while away from home quite a bit more enjoyable as well.

However, knowing you’d love to try traveling with your toys is one thing. Actually understanding the best way to go about it is another. Here we’ll go over everything a smart traveler needs to know about traveling with sex toys including how to pack them, how to successfully get your toys through airport security, and more.

How Likely Is It for a Sex Toy to Cause a Problem When Traveling?

Most toy lovers that don’t travel with their toys as a rule go that route for one simple reason. They’re afraid of being pulled aside by airport security, having their sex toys discovered, and dealing with judgment or snickering from a crowd of strangers. Not exactly a great way to start or end a vacation!

Of course, such concerns are understandable, as no one likes the idea of having their private things seen or handled by strangers. However, the chances of a truly nightmarish scenario happening are extremely slim. Keep the following in mind.

  • There is no portion of the United States in which it’s illegal to possess or use a vibrator or any other sex toy. That said, they require no stricter screening than any other electronic device you might be traveling with.
  • Most TSA agents and airport workers have truly seen it all. Plus many, many people travel with sex toys. The chances of a worker being scandalized by your playthings are actually slim to none.

That said, relax! Then make a note of the following tips. They’ll help ensure that you get from Point A to Point B and back without a hitch.

6 Tips for Traveling with Sex Toys

Traveling with sex toys is honestly a lot like traveling without them. You really just need a proper understanding of what the rules are so that you can be sure you follow them.

1.      Understand that size matters.

The TSA does have a few rules you’ll need to be aware of when it comes to hand tools longer than 7 inches in length. (Yes, your favorite vibrator or dildo is considered a hand tool.) That said, smaller, more discreet toys are fine to bring in your carry-on luggage. Anything that could be considered “club-like” ought to be checked just to be on the safe side. Not sure about yours? The following guidelines should help you.

OK to Carry On

  • Handcuffs
  • Rope
  • Vibrators, dildos, and similar toys measuring less than 7 inches
  • Gear made of leather, buckles, or fabric (i.e. strap-on harnesses)

Probably Should Check It Just to Be Safe

  • Toys longer than 7 inches
  • Toys make of very hard or heavy materials
  • Whips other than riding crops
  • Paddles
  • Any sort of e-stimulation equipment

Definitely Need to Check It

  • Anything pointed
  • Anything with sharp edges
  • Anything that could be considered baton-like or club-like

2.      Use clear plastic bags.

Whether or not you decide to pack your toy in your carry-on bag, there’s always a possibility that it might be inspected. Plastic bags let a TSA officer get a good look at what’s inside without having to put their hands directly on it or handle it any more than is necessary. If you’re worried your toy might seem a bit ambiguous, it might be a good idea to write a brief note on a post-it and include that as well.

3.      Make sure your lubes follow the 3-1-1 rule.

Whether or not you’ll be taking your toys with you the next time you travel, you may well want to bring lube, lotion, or massage oil. The 3-1-1 rule for carry-on liquids isn’t as strictly enforced as it used to be, but it’s still very much in effect. Make sure anything you bring comes in a container three ounces in volume or smaller. Plenty of lube retailers sell travel size versions of popular products to make the process simple. Sample-sized packets of lube are also pretty handy.

4.      Prevent the possibility of a toy switching on.

The last thing you want is for your favorite vibrator to suddenly start buzzing on your way through airport security, as that would certainly attract attention. If you’re bringing a battery-operated toy, take the batteries out before packing and put them in your carry-on. If yours is a rechargeable model, you might want to think about allowing the charge to run all the way out before you add it to your suitcase. Of course, you can also simply choose to bring non-electronic toys and sidestep the issue altogether.

5.      Don’t act nervous.

TSA agents are specially trained to zero in on folks acting in a manner that could be construed as suspicious. That said, you’ll want to avoid appearing anxious or nervous. Stay cool and calm instead. Remember, you’re doing absolutely nothing wrong or shameful. You’re also far from the first or last person heading off to a getaway with a vibrator in tow. If you are asked directly about your toy, simply own it by saying “that’s my vibrator”.

6.      Do your homework first.

As touched on above, sex toys are completely legal everywhere in the United States and many other countries. However, some potential travel destinations do place restrictions on such things. (Examples include India, as well as the United Arab Emirates.) If you’ll be leaving the country, double check before you pack to make sure it’s kosher to bring your toys with you. Otherwise, you risk having them confiscated.

Of course, if you have any other questions about whether or not it’s OK to bring something specific, you can always contact the airport and ask directly. They really have seen and heard it all, so there’s no need to be embarrassed.

What Types of Sex Toys Should I Bring?

If you’re a long-time sex toy enthusiast, choosing the ideal sex toys for travel is potentially as difficult as narrowing down your wardrobe or choosing the right shoes. Compact, simple toys are always great fits for any getaway. However, you might want to take your ultimate destination into consideration as well when making your choice.

For a Beach Vacation

If you’re planning on hitting the beach or going anywhere else water might come into play, consider packing mostly waterproof toys. Small, discreet options with features like wrist straps make getting up to a little mischief while romping in the surf or spending some time in the hot tub super simple. You won’t have to worry about being detected or having your toy accidentally float away in the heat of the moment.

If you’ve never tried a simpler, smaller, bullet vibrator, now is the time! You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how powerful they can be.

For a Couples Getaway

Heading out of town to celebrate an anniversary or really bask in the glow of a brand new relationship? Consider bringing a travel massage kit with you and making it a part of your most romantic evenings. Exotic scents and silky formulas make indulging in a sensual massage a real treat. Plus, the bottles in such kits are already sized in accordance with the 3-1-1 rule.

If one or both of you considers a vibrating toy to be an absolute must-have, now might be the time to experiment with a remote controlled option. Such toys are a great way to get creatively naughty in a variety of different ways, as you can imagine. Just be sure to test the noise levels in advance if you’re thinking about having your fun in public.

For a Business Excursion

Don’t assume that going away for business instead of pleasure means sex toys are off limits! They can be a great way to enjoy your downtime a little more, especially if you won’t have much free time to sightsee. Try something discreet that doesn’t look much like a sex toy, just in case a coworker happens to glance over your shoulder and see it in your briefcase.

Today’s sex toys come in all shapes and sizes. There are toys that look exactly like lipsticks, wearable rings, and more. If it fell out of your handbag or tote, no one would be any the wiser.

No matter where you’re headed, toys that can multitask are great options as well. Small, waterproof toys that can be used in a number of different ways are often the best way to give yourself the freedom to enjoy yourself or your partner any way you like. After all, you’re on vacation! Fun, pleasure, and carefree good times are the name of the game.

Sex Toy Storage 101: Where (and How) to Stash a Growing Collection

So you’ve finally done it. You’ve totally discovered the wide, wonderful world of sex toys. You’ve learned what you like, where to buy it, and how to get the absolute most out of using it either by yourself or with your partner. You’ve even begun to amass quite the collection of items – everything from dildos in every size, to vibrators for every occasion, to a healthy supply of lubricants to choose from.

However, as you no doubt already know, building the perfect sex toy collection is one thing. Figuring out how and where to store it is another! Here we’ll take a close look at why the way you store your toys totally matters. We’ll discuss how other people in your position go about storing their toys, as well as give you some tips for finding the right solution for you as well.

Why Storing Your Toys Properly Is Important

If you were like most kids, you totally had a toybox where you kept all of your favorite items. Maybe you were good at actually putting your toys away properly after play and maybe you weren’t. Even so, a lot of your things probably wound up stuffed under the bed from time to time or covered in some unnamed sticky substance every so often.

You can’t treat your sex toys that way if you actually want them to remain functional. Neglected toys can shatter, rust, flake, chip, or even melt. They can become really unhygienic if allowed to accumulate bacteria, mold, or lint as well. If you’re like most sex toy enthusiasts, you’ve invested a lot of time and money in your collection. Proper care and storage can ensure that your favorites are with you for many years to come.

Deciding on a Hiding Place

Even the most sex positive among us usually wants to be smart when it comes to storing sex toys. You might not care so much about your partner or your best friend accidentally stumbling across your stash. Your grandmother, your cleaning lady, or your kids though? You’d probably care deeply.

That said, a great hiding place for your toys is both convenient and discreet. Naturally, you want your toys close to the bed. (Nothing puts a damper on a hot round of foreplay more quickly than having to stop what you’re doing and walk all the way across the room to dig up that new cock ring you really wanted to try.) However, you also want it to be someplace random people aren’t likely to be unexpectedly confronted with a king-size dildo or your favorite set of butt plugs. That said, the following are popular solutions with good reason.

In the Nightstand

There’s a reason why the nightstand is a go-to classic when it comes to storing toys and lube. It’s right there by the bed, so your favorite items are always within easy reach. Plus, most nightstands have drawers, so it’s easy to keep intimate items discreetly out of sight. Granted a nightstand isn’t going to keep a truly nosey child or parent out of your business, but you can more or less rest assured that no one will stumble across your things by accident.

In Shoeboxes

Looking for an easy way to keep nosey roommates or other folks out of your stash? You’d be surprised at the number of people who swear by the simplest solutions. While a curious person might be tempted to look in your nightstand or go through your panties drawer, most don’t pay much attention to shoeboxes.

Shoeboxes are pretty nondescript, so your cleaning lady or your mom isn’t likely to think much of one should they find it stashed underneath your bed or on a nearby shelf. Try lining the box with a soft material to help cushion more delicate toys.

Inside the Bed

There are also a lot of people that keep their less delicate toys close at hand by hiding them in between their mattress and box spring. While some snoops might go to the trouble of lifting up your mattress to look underneath, most won’t.

Just make sure you only use this option for hardier, less expensive toys. Also, you’ll want to make sure lint and bacteria are kept off of your items by placing them in a soft bag or protective case first or, at the very least, wrapping them in a handkerchief or similar item.

Specialized Casing

If you’re super serious about finding the ideal storage solution for your toys, you can always consider purchasing a custom case or otherwise specialized option made with your toys in mind. Such cases often include features like compartments that take the hassle out of organizing a large collection, foam to help cushion your most delicate items, and so forth.

Many also come equipped with locks. That said, if you’re looking for the perfect way to guarantee over-curious children, family members, or cleaning ladies stay out of your things, this is it.

Of course some people truly don’t care whether or not the entire world knows they have a sex toy collection and are perfectly happy to display theirs in plain view. If that sounds like you, then more power to you! All that really matters is that the solution you choose is hygienic and works for you.

What You Need to Know About Caring for Your Toys

There’s more to protecting the integrity of your favorite toys than simply choosing a good storage option. Your toys also need to be properly cleaned and maintained if they’re going to remain hygienic and in in good working order. That said, keep the following rules of thumb in mind.

Toys need to be washed after every use.

Yes, it’s important to wash your toys after you’ve shared them with a partner. However, it’s just as important to do so after solo use. Toys that are washed after every use don’t accumulate potentially harmful bacteria. They’re also much less likely to degrade or become discolored over time.

It’s a good idea to wash your toys before each use as well, especially if you don’t store your toys in dedicated containers, cases, or bags. It’s the best way to make sure they don’t potentially transfer lint, pet hair, or germs to your most sensitive areas.

The soap you use on your toys matters.

Although gentle washing with soap and water is a perfectly safe way to clean many sex toys, choose your soap with care. Avoid scented or antibacterial soaps, as they can leave a residue that could harm the toy or irritate sensitive body parts. A mild, unscented hand soap or dish soap is perfectly fine in most cases.

When washing battery-operated or electric toys, never submerge them in water. Simply wipe them down with a warm, soapy washcloth and dry them gently afterward. You can also purchase cleaning solutions designed especially for sex toys. Just spray them straight onto the toy, gently wipe it off, and you’re all good!

The lube you use with your toys matters too.

While it might be tempting to think that any sex lube is safe to use with all of your toys, this isn’t the case, so you need to know the difference. Never use oil or silicone-based lubes on silicone toys. They’ll cling to the surface of your toy and break down the surface over time, ruining it in the process.

Go with a water-based alternative or a hybrid lube for silicone items or any time you’re in doubt as to which option is appropriate. They are safe for use with all toys no matter what the material. Just make sure you wash everything thoroughly after use!

Use good judgment when sharing toys.

If you like to share your toys with your partners, make sure you’re doing so safely. Sex toys made of porous materials can’t be completely disinfected, so it’s best to incorporate condoms when using them on other people. (If you only use the toy on yourself, you should be fine so long as you wash it properly after each use.)

Know when it’s time to replace your toys.

Even the best, most expensive toys don’t last forever, so it’s important to know when a given item needs to be replaced. Seams that are coming apart are obvious signs that it’s time to let a given toy go. So are pockmarks on the surface of silicone toys or other porous items.

An electronic toy may stop holding a charge as well as it used to. Motors that have become noticeably louder over time are also indicative of a toy is probably nearing the end of its life. Replace them sooner rather than later! Otherwise you risk them conking out at the most inopportune time.

At the end of the day, your sex toy collection is a lot like anything else that represents a significant investment. Proper care and storage can go a long way toward making sure your favorite items are part of your sex life for a long time to come.