Every man has sexual fantasies. Some men dream of acting on a few of their favorites and may even have done it a time or two already. Others just enjoy the thrill of thinking about certain things, but one thing’s for sure. If you’re in a relationship with a man and wrongly assume he doesn’t have fantasies simply because he’s never mentioned them, you’re dead wrong.
The fact of the matter is everyone has fantasies, your partner included. And although no two men are the same when it comes to what turns them on, some fantasies are so common, most men have entertained them at least a time or two. Here are a few excellent examples.
You constantly hear about this fantasy for one excellent reason. Just about every guy has it and has entertained it at one point or another. For some, it’s the idea of satisfying two women at one time that gets them going. For others, it’s all about seeing their usual partner getting down and dirty with another woman.
The whole thing is just smoking hot, whether it’s something you’d be into yourself or not. But don’t be surprised if your guy never takes the initiative to tell you about his threesome fantasies. Many guys are worried about how their partners might react, while others simply prefer to keep their thoughts to themselves. So, if you’re interested in giving this a try yourself, you may have to bring it up yourself (or at least drop a few pointed hints).
2. Off-Limits Partners
To be fair, men aren’t the only ones who like to fantasize about getting it on with someone completely inappropriate. Everyone’s entertained the idea of falling into bed with a boss, a professor, a spouse’s smoking hot sibling, or even a complete stranger. Trust that your man is no exception whatsoever.
If you like the idea of bringing this particular fantasy to life, it’s easy enough to do. Roleplaying can be a fun way for both halves of a couple to keep things fresh and enjoy a little illicit fun without straying outside of their relationship. Bring it up as an idea sometime, and watch your partner’s eyes light up.
3. Anal Sex
Although anal sex is much less taboo than it used to be, it’s still far enough off the beaten trail to bring a serious naughty factor to the table. And yes, there are very few guys who don’t regularly daydream about getting a little anal action. He knows it’s not something the average woman casually does with every partner, if she’s done it at all. So, the idea of getting to go there himself is intoxicating for that reason.
Of course, whether you ever make this fantasy come true for your guy is entirely up to you. But know that, when it’s done right, anal can be just as pleasurable for you as it is for him. The key is lots of patience and even more lube. Consider starting with a small anal toy or a finger to get used to the sensations. There’s plenty of time to progress to full-on anal sex later on, so take things as slowly as you need to.
4. Being Dominated
Although plenty of men out there fantasize about being with an innocent, submissive woman who’ll let him do whatever he wants, there are even more who love thinking about being dominated. This is especially the case for men who are very dominant, powerful, and authoritative in their everyday lives. They love the idea of having the tables turned on them by a beautiful woman, perhaps even their partner.
If you’re typically not the one to call the shots in the bedroom, consider trying a little role reversal on for size for a fun change of pace. Experimenting with dominance versus submission and similar themes could be a fun change of pace for both of you, so don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.
5. Sex in Risqué Places
There’s nothing like a little bit of risk to take a sexual encounter from good to positively mind-blowing, and you can bet your guy spends a fair amount of time thinking about it. It’s not that he’s genuinely an exhibitionist or genuinely wants to be caught having sex. It’s just that the idea of it is so darned exciting.
If you ever do attempt to make this fantasy come true for your partner, there are plenty of ways to approach it that will give you the excitement you’re after without too much actual risk. Try starting small with sex on your porch or back patio after dark – someplace that’s just the right amount of risky. Out-of-the-way sections of a secluded beach, a dark corner of a deserted theater, and similar settings can be fun to explore, as well. Try it for yourself, and see!