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How to Make Long-Distance Sex Red Hot

How to Make Long-Distance Sex Red Hot

Posted at Feb 17, 2021 09:00 am By Castle Megastore / Category:

Whether you’re currently quarantining separately from your partner during the pandemic or just need a hot and ready way to connect when you’re away from home on business, long-distance sex over Skype or FaceTime is where it’s at. There’s a fine art to doing it right, though, especially if you’re new to it or tend to get nervous in front of a camera. Here are a few tips, tricks, and points to keep in mind to make every session as hot as possible.

Make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons.

Wanting to be a Skype sex expert because you’re really into the idea is one thing. Doing it because you feel like “everyone else is doing it” or because your partner’s the only one into it is another. You should never feel pressured to do anything sexually that makes you uncomfortable.

Life isn’t a contest. You don’t need to keep up with your friends, and no rulebook says you have to maintain a long-distance connection in a particular way. And if it’s about trying to please your partner, they should understand that this just isn’t your thing.

Schedule some prep time beforehand.

The last thing you want is for a technical issue to get in the way of your highly anticipated cyber date. Ensure your internet connection is up to snuff and that your communication device of choice is fully charged before you get started on your long-distance sex.

Take some time to set the mood, as well. Make sure the area where you’ll be getting down and dirty is clean and feels romantic. Put some sexy sheets on the bed and light some candles. Not only will the scene look better on camera, but it will be easier for you to get in the mood yourself. If you have roommates, make sure you lock your door before it’s go time, as well.

Make a whole night of it.

Don’t feel you have to strip down and get down to business the minute your call starts. If you can, make a whole night of it. Make sure you won’t be distracted or interrupted. Spend some time chatting first while you each have a glass of wine or a cocktail.

When you’re ready to transition things to steamier territory, get the ball rolling with a little naughty talk. Tell your partner all about what you’ve been thinking about doing to them. And keep the conversation going throughout your play. Skype sex that’s purely visual can get surprisingly old, but a steady stream of talk keeps that erotic energy going during long-distance sex.

Know all your best angles.

Spend a little time beforehand testing different angles and positions before it’s actually time for your date. Yes, you naturally want to look sexy for your partner while you’re getting hot and heavy, but this isn’t just about them.

Anyone who’s spent much time video chatting knows how mesmerizing it can be to watch themself in action. This is certainly the case during video sex, as well, so call your shots with your own enjoyment in mind. Chances are, if you like how something looks on camera, so will your partner.

Keep things spicy with the right props.

A video sex session is a perfect opportunity to get creative with how things play out, so don’t be afraid to pull out all the stops. Maybe your partner knows you have a vibrator, but they’ve never actually gotten a chance to see you use it on yourself. Why not make tonight their lucky night?

There’s no shame in shopping for a few sexy surprises to get your partner’s blood racing, either. Treat yourself to some beautiful lingerie that makes you feel like a fox or some satin sheets that put you in the mood. If you and your partner are both game, you can even buy sex toys that can be controlled from far away via a cell phone app. Only you set the limits on your long-distance sex.

Take it as it comes.

FaceTime sex should be fun, playful, and exciting, so don’t take things overly seriously. It’s okay (and even advisable) to laugh if something goes wrong. People fart. Props fall or wind up getting dropped. Just make it part of your good time and crack a joke instead of getting red-faced or embarrassed.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be a regular porn star right out of the gate, either. Practice makes perfect when it comes to anything worth doing, video sex included. Take things slowly and introduce new things into the mix when you’re ready. If that’s right away, then that’s fine, but no worries if it’s not.

Video sex is something that can seem really intimidating when you’re brand new to it and still learning the ropes. It’s something anyone can do, enjoy, and become good at in time, though. Get started today, and start your journey!